ABHISHEK's VIEW

Life is a medley of colours. Some days are bright, while some are a dull shade of grey, like today. There are cycles of Joy-Sorrow-Joy, cycles of Success-Failure-Success, as soon as you reach a destination, you begin on a new journey. The paradox of life is that the only CONSTANT thing is CHANGE. As life progresses, we learn to accept changes and move on. There are many uncertainties in life, everything cannot be planned to the last detail. Accepting the change and moving forward is much more easier than RESISTING the change. There is one change in particular which I, or for that matter all of us find difficult to accept....the Change of LOSS. We cannot withstand loss, loss of anything.....money, things, people..We never understand how little we need in this world until we know the loss of something... we desperately want the lost thing back...somehow...anyhow! Life is 10% of WHAT HAPPENS TO YOU, the remaining 90% is HOW YOU RESPOND TO WHAT HAPPENS. I have made many mistakes in life, I...

Life is full of opposites, For each thing in this universe, there is an opposite value. Life is followed by death, death gives birth to new life. Happiness is followed by sadness, sadness gives way to happiness, Sleep is followed by wakefulness and wakefulness gives way to sleep, temptation is followed by satiety, and satiety paves way for a new temptation, Success is followed by failure and failure gives way to success, However dark the night...it is always followed by dawn..... My point of saying all these things is....we always expect the "GOOD" things from the lot mentioned above..... We would invariably always want happiness,success,power and we would obviously be upset if we end up getting the opposite values....sadness,failure and the likes.... And Life is no lottery, life doesnt give us every good thing just like that.....You can compare it with a situation like this.... How would it be if there was no day at all...and only night....always....we cant have such a situa...

This is yet another of my Guru's thoughts....He says that the human mind has the tendency of oscillating in the future and the past. It never stays put in the present. When something bad happens, we think about the past and think that the event could have possibly been avoided. Likewise, we think about what we are going to do in the future. We get worried about small trivial matters (we includes "ME" too!!) for no particular reason. I remember a very good quote right now....it goes like this..."WE WORRY ABOUT WHAT A PERSON WILL BECOME TOMORROW YET WE FORGET THAT HE IS SOMEONE TODAY." One way to look at things is to think that everything happens for the good and everything happens for a reason. I have learnt not to regret anything in life. Whatever has happened will stay that way....whatever has to happen will happen regardless of whatever you do. You have the present moment...seize it....because the same moment will become the past a moment later. For some stran...

Every decision you make and every action you take in your life is affected by your habits. If you are someone who hates to take risk, you will never make any investment. Even if you do, you will never stay calm and miss the right opportunity. Therefore, if you want to be successful today, develop these top 3 success habits now... 1. Develop the habit of goal setting. By writing down what you want to achieve in your life, you will make your dreams into a more tangible form and you will also activate the law of attraction. Your goals will keep you focus in your life and direct you into the direction of where you want to be. Successful people know exactly what they want and they set a clear goal to achieve it. Therefore, you must do the same to get what you want. 2. The second success habit you must develop is the habit of taking consistent action each and everyday. Without action, nothing is going to happen. It is useless if you read a book teaching you how to cook but you never put the...